

Your baby has come a long way and a well-baby visit can bring home just how far your toddler has progressed. They can also be a handful when what you really want them to do is stay still while they are checked over!
Dress your toddler in a two-piece outfit that comes off easily. Plan to keep them on your lap or near you for most of the examination. Take one or two familiar toys. Snacks will also help you get through this visit.
Early appointments are better than afternoon ones. Avoid naptime.
Other things that may be discussed:
Has your baby seen a GP since the last visit? If so, why? What was the outcome of that visit, and was any medication or treatment prescribed?
How are your baby's walking, running and climbing skills? Can they walk backwards?
How about language abilities? What are they saying?
Does your baby understand one-step commands such as 'Get your shoes' or Bring me a nappy'? Can they listen to and follow a simple story? Does your baby look at the pictures in a book?
How does your baby play? The type of play a child engages in tells us about cognitive abilities. Do they imitate you at household tasks? Can they stack blocks?
Is your baby starting to say 'no' and have temper tantrums? These are good signs of emotional growth and cognitive aspects of child growth.
Can they kick a ball? Can they walk up and down the stairs using both feet or one foot at a time?
Is your toddler shy around strangers, at least at first?
Can they follow a two-step command?
Exactly what you chat about from the list above will depend on your baby's age and toddler development stage.
Feel out of control.
Hit them when you feel out of control.
Leave a mark or bruise on your child. There are many programmes that can help you cope with the challenges you face with a growing child.
Speak up!
Your busy toddler will probably bruise their shins and bump their head. But you should ask your child about bruises anywhere on their body that can't be reasonably explained. If you have any concerns about your child's injuries, tell your health professional immediately. They can look at the bumps and bruises and tell you whether they appear to be from normal activities. Do this before you let any childminder or babysitter take care of your baby again.
Raise any concerns you may have. Such as:
if your baby has a wandering eye that still wanders, even once in a while
if your baby gets very close to things to see them better, especially if poor vision at early ages runs in the family
if your baby seems especially sensitive to light or sound
if your baby isn't walking yet, is walking on their toes, or limps or tilts to one side when they walk
if your baby seems to be using only one hand when they play, handle things or reach for objects. If your baby is already very right or left handed, they will use one hand more often when they eat and point. But they should use both hands equally when they play.
if they can't put two objects together in play - are still playing with one object at a time
if they don't take a spoon when you offer it to them
if they don't feed themselves
if they've lost skills they had before.
if they use no real words
if they show no affection
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